When I add a contact on windows live messenger..will they see?

I wan't to add my friend...without her seeing..is it possible?

On windows live messanger? or even Yahoo...

Im not a perv ..I just want to suprise her..

Anyways thanksza

When I add a contact on windows live messenger..will they see?download windows xp

I think they will receive a pop window saying that you added him or asking if she grants permission to be added